What You See Is Not Always What You Get…
At the start of everyone’s course of life, they tend to make situations run in their own favor, by doing and trying to get what they want, because every individual seeks for pleasure, excitement and fun. The run of one certain happening in one’s life does not depend totally on one of the actions they might choose to follow. With one action, comes another, and then there is a whole big circle of actions that follow simultaneously, where everything, for sure, does not bring the outcome one might have expected. If you start to build your own world of happenings, and try to make everything run within your favor and calmness, you would, in the long run, find yourself nowhere. You might be at a place, where you might have to choose one, and let the other go, even if either of the decision might leave you hurt, broken, or at the most distressed!!
so many choices which one do you chose and which one do you let go?
This is where expectations win over your thoughts and desires. You might have begun a journey, full of hopes, gorgeous scenes, perfect memory, but what you might get in return might revert your entire journey, and take your sails to a direction where you might not have even thought to end up at! This is where “What You See Is Not Always What You Get.” You see things through your own eyes, and if one step of your plan works out perfect, you tend to rely more and more on your very own decisions, without considering where you might land when a minor mistake might lead to a completely different outcome. We individuals have a tendency to see things completely perfect. We do not wish we would find even a single minor mistake which might lead to a major change, both in your own eyes, and the eyes of the others. It might change one’s thinking; it might bring a whole lot of difference between that person, and the others around them; it might change the entire look of how people and their judgments are; and it might ruin your own plans and make them a complete waste.
learn to accept your mistakes.
So when you run through your life, remember : When things are extremely perfect, do not run to make them more perfect, or try to make the following plans after that a success, because every time you do something with your life, it tests you at every stage. There is always a high negative with a positive, which might mean that once you start on a positive note, and things do not work out, you will tend to see the negativities of a situation first, before weighing its positivity. Life has taken me through so many courses that from now onwards, I myself look at things first in the long run, then consider abiding by them in the current standards of situation. People say that you should enjoy every moment of today’s life, without thinking what the future might bring. But if you make today a reality, run and chase what you desire, and you might be having the most pleasurable of all times, everything would be superb, then what if in the long run it all reverts? What if the most important part of your life is no more? You make today the brightest, but your future gets completely dull.
Learn to have exceptions for the new day.. think about your future
There is always a want in me to see things first how they would look in the long run, and then accordingly make plans to make it awesome or the worst in the current time. Because there are things in one’s life they never want to let go of. Those things which is their life; which is what they always want with them… However, everything and everyone, at some point, would leave us, because we enter the world alone, and we would likely to be leaving alone too. At that time, there would be nothing like “someone” “something” or “everyone” in life. You make your identity as “yourself” and run with that throughout your life…
Build your life…
So when you start making a decision, you make sure you have it in your head: Even if at some point you have someone or something that you always need in your life, they won’t be there till the very end of your life. You create and build your own life by yourself; no helping hands; no support, and it is purely YOU who stand up for and against everything. Always expect the unexpected, whether its the best or the worst depends on how you see it.. Never let anyone else make decisions for you, because you are the sole master for making and breaking things. And always remember- WHAT YOU SEE IS NOT ALWAYS WHAT YOU GET. Keeping this in mind, work on your plans, and build your world of dreams; and do not let yourself shatter amidst the highs and lows of life…
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